It kills me how men say that they want a good woman. A woman that has not been passed around from man to man. A woman with boundaries, and most importantly standards. But, when men find that woman, they allow their egos to get the best of them. I have a very flirtatious personality, I admit to that. It is because I love people and I love to make people smile. Specifically, black men. I am flattered by the positive compliments and attention I receive from adoring men. But, that does not mean that I am promiscuous. It does not mean that I sleep with every man that I hang out with, or that desires me. I have boundaries, and I live within them. I do not "make out" with a man unless I am comfortable with allowing it to go further. Because of this, I have been called a tease, stuck up, and even a lesbian. My morals and my values are mine. I do not, and will not change them for anyone. Real men embrace this personality characteristic, and they respect it. They strive to be that one that I will choose. At the end of the day, allowing just anyone to enter my body is not something that I will do. God has given me the understanding of the complications that this kind of behavior can bring. My spirituality is the most important thing to me. If I do not connect with your spirit, I will not allow your seed to come anywhere near my...SPIRIT. I know who I want, and HE wants me. I know who I love, and HE loves me. Looking forward to an amazing life with this man. It has been a long time coming! Living, loving, and loving some more. carry on
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